Welcome Party

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Send Off Gathering

Our Wedding

John and Lexi's story began in Dream Canyon on the banks of North Boulder Creek. A fishing first date had been arranged. Lexi arrived ready to go with her fly rod, fly box, and waders. John arrived in Crocs and a tank top, spin rod recently purchased at Walmart in hand. Lexi immediately second guessed having agreed to the date. Thankfully, Lexi gave John a chance and things improved drastically from there. What John lacked in fashion and fishing prowess, he made up for in cooking romantic dinners, planning outdoor excursions, and a passion for exploration in both the mountains and the city. The fact that Lexi was game for all of the above soon had John falling head over heels. For her part, Lexi was intrigued by this New York city boy turned Colorado mountain man — their love grew from there. The past few years have seen Lexi and John build on this foundation of shared passions to explore the world together. From laughing at (and enjoying) modern art in Chelsea galleries, to branding cattle in Wyoming, jumping off cliffs in Moab, attempting to “chill” (not John’s strong suit) on the beaches of Tulum, and shredding the gnar across the Rocky Mountains, there’s never a dull moment for these two. When not doing things that make their parents mildly nervous, they reside in the mountains outside of Boulder, Colorado and are the proud parents of two beautiful pups, Layla and Hunter.

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John and Ryan met at NYU and quickly bonded over shared interests such as drinking a gallon of whole milk a day, lifting weights, and engaging in antics that they found hilarious (and others found questionable). Thankfully, their bond grew over much less superficial interests such as shared passions in politics (#FreePalestine), art, and reading. After graduation and Ryan's stint in the army, the two bought a van together and spent the next year exploring North and South America, climbing mountains along the way. After returning from their year in the mountains, John and Ryan took separate paths and have had less time to see one another. They have, however, grown closer by integrating their respective new friend groups, relationships, and spending time with each other's families.  Ryan now lives in a swamp with his wife and two dogs waiting for Lexi and John to come to their senses and move to Jacksonville, FL.  

Ryan Lynch

John's brother. Over the years, Fitz and John have been roommates, teammates, occasional unsanctioned sparring partners, travel buddies, sources of support for one another, and so much more. The two share a variety of interests including sports, history, music, and physical fitness but occasionally in quite different styles. Fitz is actively promoting a more democratic style of fantasy football than Gerald #letthekickerskick.

Fitz Nicholas

John’s brother (occasionally mistaken for his twin). From trekking 20 miles through hurricane force winds to reach a pub in Wales (totally worth it) to befriending the local street dogs of Patagonia (hola Perrito Jameson, wherever you are) to narrowly avoiding being charged by a rather irritable moose in Wyoming (it was 4 AM, that’s our bad), Mac and John have been through quite a bit together. While perhaps not every one of their adventures can be classified as well thought out, they’ve had a damn good time running, climbing, eating, learning, exploring, and everything in between over the last 30 years. 

Mac Nicholas

John’s cousin. Even though we have different parents, we have felt like brothers our whole lives. John has been a (mostly) positive influence in my life and has always been incredibly gracious in inviting me to hang with his crew. In high school, it was fairly common for me to be grounded. John and his rambunctious pack of NYU boys would often descend on the Sargent household for a weekend of beer fueled activities and magically I would be ungrounded! I was always allowed to partake in the fun as long as “responsible cousin John” was there. John has gone through so many different stages of life, from Jimi Hendricks rocker, to NYU frat bro, to remarkably impressive mountain man. Through it all he has been a true brother and friend. I am looking forward to being part of this next chapter. Lexi has her hands full, and it will be great!

Jack Sargent

Gerald is the New York finance guy who somehow ended up best friends with a mountain man like John. They’ve been fraternity roommates, Thailand travel partners, and are usually the last two standing over late-night darts and AC/DC. Like many of John’s closest friends, Gerald has endured a near-death mountain experience he was entirely unprepared for. Even as life has taken them down different paths, their bond remains strong in their love for family, friends, and, of course, roasts at Gerald’s expense.

Gerald Castaldo

Ashwinn is one of John’s long-suffering compatriots, reluctantly and unwittingly dragged into more of John’s adventures than any man should reasonably survive. Their joint highlight reel includes summiting one of the tallest 14’ers in Colorado; a 14-hour slog for which Ashwinn’s entire training regimen consisted of a four-mile run in Central Park at zero elevation. Somehow, despite these misadventures, the questionable survival decisions, and the endless bottles of whiskey, John and Ashwinn still manage to survive and find new opportunities to risk life and limb together. May this divine intervention save Lexi on whatever adventure John drags her into.

Ashwinn Krishnaswamy

Ryan and John met at NYU, and their friendship clicked almost instantly. Living together in the “house” in Chinatown gave them years’ worth of stories - late nights, and the unforgettable day when John came back from a summer in Wyoming and busted through the door with absolute ranch-strength. It was the moment everyone realized, “Ah, so this is what frontier living does to a man.”

They bonded through wrestling, long talks, and general hijinx. But one of Ryan’s favorite memories is their first trip out West: a marathon drive to Vegas, camping in the Zion Narrows, and finally reaching Wyoming. Visiting the ranch where John grew up connected all the dots - suddenly his toughness, kindness, and cowboy-adjacent wisdom made perfect sense. Ryan currently resides in Washington DC with his cactus, Frank.

Ryan Olson

Tony first crossed paths with John at NYU, where they met as fraternity pledge brothers and never looked back. They went on to live together in both the legendary Pike House on Lafayette and later at 365 1st Ave—better known as the HQ. A founding member of the Mangy Dawgs, Tony has joined John on everything from motorcycle tours in northern Thailand to ski trips across Colorado, Utah, Wyoming, and Canada. He also proudly serves as the group’s resident DJ—whether anyone asked for music or not.

Anthony Evangelista

I met John on the very first day of freshman year of high school. Back then, he was a lanky, scrawny version of himself with a lion’s mane of hair that even the most fearsome man-eater would’ve been jealous of. We bonded over our love of Rage Against the Machine, skating and "extracurricular" activities.  Throughout high school, we perfected the classic move of telling our parents we were going to each other’s houses, only to roam around the woods stirring up trouble. It was reckless, fun, and honestly some of the best memories I’ve got. Since then, our friendship has only grown. We’ve bonded over our love for Colorado and the outdoors—though for me, “outdoors” mostly means sitting around a campfire with a whiskey in hand. John’s been a constant from day one: fiercely loyal, hilarious, and always ready for whatever comes next. I couldn’t imagine a better friend. 

Mickey Mitchell

Adam met John during his abrupt transition from Indiana cornfields to NYC, where they joined the same fraternity at NYU. Eventually, their friendship matured beyond low-cost domestic beer during a 2012 road trip through the American West, which revealed a shared love of mountain adventures and the joy of suffering a few miles above sea level. Since then, John has become the primary instigator of near-death experiences in Adam’s life. They’ve bushwhacked through the Alaskan Arctic, gasped for air high in the Peruvian Andes, and shared more adventures west of Kansas than either will ever admit to their parents. Their friendship only strengthened over 2.5 years spent living together in Colorado, where Adam serves as the proud third wheel to John and Lexi. Now, he’s thrilled to pass the torch to Lexi — the only one driven enough to match John’s ambition and responsible enough to reinstall the smoke detectors after a fog machine-heavy evening.

Adam Weist

As the older (and noticeably shorter — and unquestionably funnier) sister, I have always taken my big-sister duties very seriously. For example: naming her. Our mom was convinced she would go by Alex, but then I watched one episode of Law & Order with a character named “Lexi,” and immediately declared that as her nickname. And just like that, it was. Over time, “Lexi” mysteriously evolved into “Lou,” for absolutely no reason other than #BigSisterPrivilege and my commitment to loving a nickname that only I get to use. While I prefer activities that keep my feet firmly — lovingly — on the ground, Lexi is the adventurous, travel-obsessed sister who will try anything once: skydiving, cliff jumping, and anything else that requires signing a waiver. Despite our wildly different comfort levels with gravity, we have always admired each other’s paths. I call her with every medical concern imaginable, and she FaceTimes me whenever a fashion emergency reaches a code-red level. Being her Matron of Honor is a privilege I am honored to have. I am here for support, expert advice, comedic relief, and to issue a firm “absolutely not” if any surprise extreme-sports opportunities arise on or before the wedding day.

Ashley Grape 

I’m Lexi’s other sister (the stereotypical middle child): mildly adventurous and very pro-sleep—where Lexi and I differ the most. Growing up, we fought like crazy, but no one else was ever allowed to pick on her (cue my intense stare-downs at anyone who even breathed wrong in her direction). These days, we’ve grown a deep, easy friendship full of inside jokes, lots of love, and plenty of “relaxing hangouts.” I’m so grateful we live just a town apart, and I couldn’t be happier to celebrate Lexi’s life with John and the pups!

Devon Bergum

Kyra met Lexi in Denver and quickly learned two important things: Lexi is always down for an adventure, and Lexi can fix just about anything. From spontaneous trips to repairing screen doors destroyed by Kyra’s overly enthusiastic dog, building things that other people would Google three times before attempting, and somehow knowing how to un-shrink jeans, Lexi has been the person Kyra does life with. Whether that means tackling projects, chasing new experiences (like 4-wheeling an hour before Kyra has to work), or figuring things out as they go (like repairing the hole in the 4-wheeler tire 15 minutes before that meeting). Watching Lexi and John’s relationship unfold has been pretty incredible—I couldn’t be more honored to stand by Lexi’s side as she does what she does best: absolutely crush it.

Kyra Anderson

Bryant Smith

Keegan and Lexi met in 2021 as sight unseen roommates in Arvada CO. They lived with four
other roommates in the house, but their
friendship really started to stand out one early
morning when Lexi knocked on Keegan's door to
ask if he'd like to go hunting for rocks in
Manitou with some guy she found on the
internet. Ever since, their friendship has been
special. From going on spontaneous adventures
to being there for each other and having
each other's back, it didn't matter what hour of
the morning it was (to us). There was one time
Keegan and Lexi woke up all the other
roommates at an unholy hour of the morning to
unlock Lexi's bedroom door with a power drill.
Even though they moved out and were no
longer roommates, Keegan and Lexi remained
close over the years. When Lexi introduced
Keegan to John, Keegan knew Lexi had found a
great man to share her adventurous and
spontaneous life with. Watching John and Lexi's
relationship grow and open the door for many
new experiences has been a great joy to witness.

Keegan Mulligan

Wedding Party

Dress Code

Wedding Events

Friday 7/17 - Welcome Party at the Sheridan Inn Saturday 7/18 - Wedding Ceremony &amp; Reception at The Neltje Center Sunday 7/19 - Park Day Send-Off Gathering at John and Connie's on the ranch

What to expect / dress code

We’re excited to celebrate with you all weekend long! Beginning Friday, with a Welcome Party at the historic Sheridan Inn, where guests are encouraged to embrace cowboy attire in true Wyoming spirit. On Saturday, we'll gather for the Wedding Ceremony and Reception at The Neltje Center, where the dress code is to “Outdo the Bride” in your most fabulous attire, whether that means vibrant colors, standout accessories, dramatic silhouettes, or something new that makes you feel unforgettable. We’ll wrap up the festivities on Sunday, with a relaxed Send-Off Gathering at John and Connie’s place on the ranch. We're excited to spend some time outdoors tubing the creek and playing yard games. Bathing suits, sandals, and easy summer attire are the perfect fit for a laid-back farewell.

registry?

We’re lucky to have everything we need in our home. If you’d like to honor us with a gift, a contribution to our honeymoon fund would mean the world.

Q + A

Getting to Sheridan

There are a few ways we recommend getting to Sheridan: 1.) Book a flight directly to Sheridan from Denver International Airport. Flights operated by United Airlines arrive from DIA daily. 2.) Fly to Billings, Montana and drive one hour and 45 minutes to Sheridan. 3.) Fly to Casper, Wyoming and drive two hours to Sheridan. 4.) Fly to Denver International airport and drive 6 hours to Sheridan.

Accommodations 

Rooms have been blocked for the wedding weekend at the Historic Sheridan Inn and at the Sheridan Center (Operated by Best Western). Please call the Sheridan Inn directly at (307) 674-2178 and mention that you are attending John and Lexi's wedding. As the rooms are blocked for the weekend, they are not available for purchase via the Inn's website. This is also where the welcome party will be held. The two hotels are walking distance from one another and both located in downtown Sheridan.

<a href="http://www.sheridaninn.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.sheridaninn.com/</a> The Sheridan Inn, built in 1892–1893 and designed with European influences by Thomas Kimball, opened as a modern landmark featuring Sheridan’s first electric lights and accommodations for travelers shaping the expanding West. Its most famous resident, Buffalo Bill Cody, lived there from 1894 to 1902 and used the grounds to audition performers for his renowned “Wild West” show. The Inn holds major historical significance due to its deep connection with Cody, who helped develop it and brought together a remarkable cast of frontier figures. Today, each of the Inn’s 22 restored rooms highlights Buffalo Bill and other key personalities who shaped the identity and mythology of the American West.

Sheridan Inn, BW Signature Collection

To make a reservation at the Best Western Sheridan Center, please click on the website link included. The Group Room Block is available through 6/16/2026.If you are interested in additional room reservations before or after the room block dates, please contact the hotel directly for the additional room reservations. Check In Time: 3:00pmCheck Out Time: 11:00am

Best Western Sheridan Center

Getting to and from the wedding venue

The wedding will take place at the Neltje Center, a 25 minute drive from Sheridan and your hotel. Shuttle service will be provided to and from the event. Please enter “Neltje Center” in Google Maps. Be sure to use Google Maps; otherwise, you may be directed to the wrong location. If you are interested in exploring the mountains and beautiful scenery outside of town, or are not flying directly to Sheridan, we recommend renting a car for the weekend.

Travel

Restaurants we recommend 

Le Rêve Restaurant & Raw Bar

Frackelton's

Espadas Brazilian Steakhouse

Wyoming's Rib & Chop House - Sheridan

Breakfast and Coffee

Java Moon

Midtown Cafe

John and Lexi's Favorite Bars & Brews

Mint Bar

Luminous Brewhouse

Black Tooth Brewing Company

Experience Western Culture

King’s Saddlery

Fort Phil Kearny State Historic Site

The Brinton Museum

Jim Gatchell Memorial Museum

Go for a hike 

Tongue River Canyon Access

Red Grade Trails

Soldier Ridge Trailhead

Things to Do

Registry

Sheridan Inn, BW Signature Collection 856 Broadway St, Sheridan, WY 82801

Neltje CenterPlease enter Neltje Center in Google Maps. Be sure to use Google Maps; otherwise, you may be directed to the wrong location.

John + Lexi

John + Lexi

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